When he is no longer interested...

This is based on a true life story which I would share in the course of this post. I just hope the person involved won’t chop off my head when she reads this. Well it’s a risk worth taking for you (now I deserve a big hug) *smiling*

So this my friend started dating this guy. Before she agreed to date him, he really chased her as in he always volunteered to drop her off, took her to places, was very generous and made her feel special. He looked like a nice guy (but they all do right?). Few weeks down the line, things changed.

She started doing most of the calling and texting. Forget it when he always gives the I’m busy excuse. After all there was a time he was never too busy to keep the communication alive. People make out time for what is important to them; a two or three minutes call won’t cause any harm.

He spent less and less time with her and stopped inviting her to places.

He also stopped confiding in her; he could no longer open up to her.

When she noticed things were not going smoothly, she talked to Tenny* about it which is important for you to do if you also notice these warning signs. It might be something he is not happy about, stress at work or anything. If he shows willingness for the issues to be resolved then he wants the relationship to continue. But if he denies them and becomes defensive just like Tenny was and then you accidentally stumble into some of his personal messages only to find out there is another babe or babes involved then you don’t need a prophet to tell you he is no longer interested. Please don’t think of fighting the babe o. Just tell him it’s over. He doesn’t deserve you. Shikena! If you want to further confirm he is not interested in the relationship, when you break up he might simply say “no wahala”. Choi! Girls haf suffer! Lol. please be observant!

N.B Don’t worry guys; I’ll do a post soon on “when she is no longer interested”