Lenders and borrowers

Is it possible to totally forget you owe somebody?

I said totally because I know some people genuinely forget but then they always remember later, apologize and return what belongs to you.

I ask this question because I've had countless experiences of people owing me money or something without paying back and I just had to blog about it. It’s really annoying because usually I end up not asking them for it. 

Recently, one babe wore my fine slippers which I just bought without my permission and didn't return it. Even if she wasn't wearing it every day, she was seeing it so she couldn't have forgotten and she knew I was meant to travel with it. The thing pain me o as in e paaaiiinnn me. And this is just one out of so many experiences I've had.

I’m not here to rant or whine. I’m saying that if you owe somebody or you borrowed something from somebody please pay back or return it. Don’t say “no be 5K wetin he wan use 5K do”. No! Little things like this can spoil the relationship you have with people and if you need their help, they might not be willing to offer. If you don’t have it then explain to the person so he/she will know that at least you have it in mind. Please for future sake!

Maybe you've been owed or someone still owes hehehehe my dear don’t say I don’t know how to ask somebody for something. My eyes don clear! If it’s taking too long, remind. It’s possible that person thinks you've forgotten about it but how can you forget sef or the person genuinely forgot. If you need to forgive someone please do that and if you still need to help somebody do that too but apply wisdom.

*let's do it right*

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